{"id":3996,"date":"2026-10-31T12:28:50","date_gmt":"2026-10-31T12:28:50","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/muscularchristianityonline.com\/platform\/?p=3996"},"modified":"2026-10-31T12:28:50","modified_gmt":"2026-10-31T12:28:50","slug":"im-not-hurting-anyone","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/muscularchristianityonline.com\/platform\/?p=3996","title":{"rendered":"I&#8217;m Not Hurting Anyone"},"content":{"rendered":"<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" width=\"800\" height=\"324\" class=\"alignright wp-image-3285\" style=\"max-width: 320px; width: 30%; border: 1px solid #ccc; box-shadow: 5px 5px 3px #ccc; padding: 10px; border-radius: 10pt;\" src=\"https:\/\/muscularchristianityonline.com\/platform\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/10\/new_logo_rgb_blog.jpg\" alt=\"\" srcset=\"https:\/\/muscularchristianityonline.com\/platform\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/10\/new_logo_rgb_blog.jpg 800w, https:\/\/muscularchristianityonline.com\/platform\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/10\/new_logo_rgb_blog-300x122.jpg 300w, https:\/\/muscularchristianityonline.com\/platform\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/10\/new_logo_rgb_blog-768x311.jpg 768w, https:\/\/muscularchristianityonline.com\/platform\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/10\/new_logo_rgb_blog-705x286.jpg 705w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/>There&#8217;s a strategy that is often used by people who want to conceal their lack of credibility by using words and phrases that are associated with legitimate abuses of authority.<\/p>\n<ul>\n<li>&#8220;You can&#8217;t force your beliefs on me!&#8221;<\/li>\n<li>&#8220;Racist&#8221;<\/li>\n<li>&#8220;Separation of Church and State&#8221;<\/li>\n<li style=\"list-style-type: none;\"><\/li>\n<li>&#8220;I&#8217;m not hurting anyone&#8221;<\/li>\n<\/ul>\n<p>Because of the emotions that are triggered, any objective analysis that would otherwise be deployed is now pushed aside in favor of accommodating the person who&#8217;s apparently being subjugated by an abusive system.<\/p>\n<h3>Accommodated&#8230;Never Evaluated<\/h3>\n<p>When you say you&#8217;re in pain, because people assume that you&#8217;ve been hurt by something or someone other than yourself, they&#8217;re not going to ask what you&#8217;ve done to yourself. Rather, they&#8217;re going to ask what happened to you and, should you have a response that sounds like that of a victim, your perspective is rarely evaluated as much as its immediately accommodated.<\/p>\n<p>In other words, by sounding like you need help, you can avoid being held responsible for your actions.<\/p>\n<p>Take the phrase, &#8220;I&#8217;m not hurting anyone.&#8221;<\/p>\n<h3>It&#8217;s Bad for the Team<\/h3>\n<p>A lot of times you hear that statement made in the context of someone who wants to insist that what they&#8217;re doing is harmless, even if others see it as problematic.<\/p>\n<p>Sometimes, it&#8217;s a valid point.<\/p>\n<p>There are occasions when you&#8217;re being evaluated in a way that is overly critical.<\/p>\n<p>But there are other times that it&#8217;s used to conceal a mindset that says if it doesn&#8217;t both me, it shouldn&#8217;t bother anyone else and if it does, they don&#8217;t matter.<\/p>\n<p>For example, Homosexuality. When a homosexual tries to justify their lifestyle by saying that they&#8217;re not hurting anyone, do they have a point? Are homosexuals &#8220;not dangers to society&#8221; and is homosexuality &#8220;compatible with full health&#8221;?<\/p>\n<div style=\"border: 1px solid #ccc; padding: 10px; margin: auto; border-radius: 10pt; box-shadow: 5px 5px 3px #ccc; width: 90%;\">\n<p>To answer these questions 4,340 adult respondents drawn via area probability sampling from 5 metropolitan areas of the USA self-administered an extensive sexuality\/public order questionnaire of over 500 items. Bisexuals and homosexuals (about 4% of the sample) as compared to heterosexuals:<\/p>\n<ul>\n<li>more frequently exposed themselves to biological hazards (e.g., sadomasochism, fisting, bestiality, ingestion of feces);<\/li>\n<li>exposed themselves sexually to more different bodies (e.g., more frequently admitted to participating in orgies, reported considerably larger numbers of sexual partners);<\/li>\n<li>more frequently reported participating in socially disruptive sex (e.g., deliberate infection of others, cheating in marriage, making obscene phone calls);<\/li>\n<li>more frequently reported engaging in socially disruptive activities (e.g., criminality, shoplifting, tax cheating).<\/li>\n<\/ul>\n<p>From the standpoints of individual health, public health and social order, participating in homosexual activity could be viewed as dangerous to society and incompatible with full health. (<a href=\"https:\/\/pubmed.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov\/2762461\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\">National Library of Medicine<\/a>)<\/p>\n<\/div>\n<p>These aren&#8217;t the complaints of a collective that tends to be overly conservative. This is coming from the National Library of Medicine. Homosexuality, from a purely objective standpoint, is bad for the team.<\/p>\n<p>As a member of the LGBTQ community, you are declaring&#8230;<\/p>\n<ul>\n<li>I can subscribe to a lifestyle that represents a complete departure from the way the human species is designed and call it \u201cnormal.\u201d<\/li>\n<li>I can declare the physical and psychological roles of husbands and wives along with mothers and fathers as being social constructs as opposed to gender specific functions.<\/li>\n<li>I can promote my perversion as a sophisticated alternative despite its liabilities in the context of public health and social order.<\/li>\n<\/ul>\n<p><a href=\"https:\/\/www.cdc.gov\/hiv\/data-research\/facts-stats\/gay-bisexual-men.html\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\">70%<\/a> of those with HIV are either gay or bisexual men.<\/p>\n<p>It&#8217;s a sick resolve to be wrong at society&#8217;s expense.<\/p>\n<h3>No Such Thing as Being Sick<\/h3>\n<p>Homosexuality is like any other immoral act in that it&#8217;s prompted by a perspective that says &#8220;I can make up my own rules.&#8221; This is why even those that aren&#8217;t homosexuals will endorse same sex marriage because of it being founded on the idea that I don&#8217;t have to answer to anything greater than myself.<\/p>\n<p>Those that want to refrain from condemning it as perverse and instead embrace it as an irrelevant shortcoming in light of God&#8217;s grace forget that forgiveness only registers in the mind of the person who believes they need to be forgiven. If &#8220;acceptance&#8221; manifests itself only as a subsidy for bad behavior, that isn&#8217;t Christlike let alone &#8220;loving.&#8221; You don&#8217;t validate the need for a doctor&#8217;s office by saying there&#8217;s no such thing as being sick.<\/p>\n<h3>Nobody&#8217;s in the Ditch<\/h3>\n<p>The idea that any kind of decadence or injustice can be justified by trying to suggest that the ramifications are limited to a purely personal dynamic is a perspective that resonates only in the mind of the person who&#8217;s thinking of no one other than themselves. They can say that they&#8217;re not hurting anyone because the only person they&#8217;re paying any attention to is the individual they see in the mirror every morning.<\/p>\n<p>You don&#8217;t justify driving on the wrong side of the road by saying you have the right to be happy, nor can you ignore the problem you&#8217;re causing by overlooking the people you&#8217;re forcing into the ditch.<\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>There&#8217;s a strategy that is often used by people who want to conceal their lack of credibility by using words and phrases that are associated with legitimate abuses of authority. &#8220;You can&#8217;t force your beliefs on me!&#8221; &#8220;Racist&#8221; &#8220;Separation of Church and State&#8221; &#8220;I&#8217;m not hurting anyone&#8221; Because of the emotions that are triggered, any [&hellip;]<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":1,"featured_media":3285,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[42,22,27,41],"tags":[153,383,192,164],"class_list":["post-3996","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-current-events","category-discipleship","category-muscular-christianity","category-politics","tag-homosexuality","tag-im-not-hurting-anyone","tag-racism","tag-separation-of-church-and-state"],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/muscularchristianityonline.com\/platform\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/3996","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/muscularchristianityonline.com\/platform\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/muscularchristianityonline.com\/platform\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/muscularchristianityonline.com\/platform\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/users\/1"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/muscularchristianityonline.com\/platform\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcomments&post=3996"}],"version-history":[{"count":4,"href":"https:\/\/muscularchristianityonline.com\/platform\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/3996\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":4821,"href":"https:\/\/muscularchristianityonline.com\/platform\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/3996\/revisions\/4821"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/muscularchristianityonline.com\/platform\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/media\/3285"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/muscularchristianityonline.com\/platform\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fmedia&parent=3996"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/muscularchristianityonline.com\/platform\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcategories&post=3996"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/muscularchristianityonline.com\/platform\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Ftags&post=3996"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}