Copy / Paste
You always want to be explain what you believe and why (1 Pet 3:15). You never want to be guilty of simply “copying and pasting” what someone else said and use that as the basis for your convictions.
There’s a lot of that going on today. You’ll hear people rant about policies and personalities, yet when you look at what they use to justify their indignation, you’re met with what sounds like a script that they’ve just copied and pasted from their favorite news outlet.
There’s nothing wrong with citing a credible resource, but you want to make sure that it’s credible before you refer to it as conclusive.
Fact is, it’s possible to be honest without telling the whole truth.
- Some will pose as outraged by a particular behavior, yet are suspiciously silent when that same behavior is exhibited in those they support.
- Others are critical of the accomplishments of those they disagree with, yet applaud those same accomplishments when done by those they admire.
It’s more than a double standard, because you have to have a standard to begin with in order for it to be duplicated.
If you’re among those that define an “open mind” as someone who will say things like, “What’s true for you isn’t necessarily true for me,” you’ve declared yourself to be utterly meaningless, because, according to your own logic, a person can accuse you of being a liar and not be wrong.
You want to “evaluate” all of the relevant facts based on their substance and relevance to the issue being discussed. You don’t want to simply “eliminate” those facts that are credible, yet contradict the conclusion that aligns with what you want to hear. However compelling an appeal for pity may sound, it’s revealed as a fool’s paradise when it’s determined that the pain they’re feeling is a result of them having shot themselves in the foot.
If you want to be taken seriously, you want to be able to demonstrate the fact that you have evaluated the facts and not just eliminated the facts you don’t want to consider. You do that by being able to explain what you believe and why you believe it, and that’s not accomplished by simply “copying and pasting” from your preferred collection of resources.
The Elimination of Tension
Some in our society today want to define “love” as being the elimination of tension.
There’s no confrontation, no correction…
…just affirmation.
When you trace that line of reasoning to its inevitable conclusion, you have a situation where
- Law Enforcement (Rom 13:4-5)
- Discipline (Prov 15:10; Prov 25:28)
- Education (Prov 4:13; 18:15)
- Personal Responsibility (Rom 14:12; Gal 6:5)
- Moral Courage (Josh 1:9; Prov 28:1; 1 Cor 16:13)
- and a healthy Work Ethic (Prov 6:6; Matt 25:14-30)…
…are all regarded as detrimental.
Even the concept of God’s Grace becomes toxic because of the way it implies that a person needs to be forgiven (Prov 14:9; 28:26; 30:12; Lk 18:11-12; 1 Jn 1:8).
Love is often manifested as a person’s willingness to endure the tension that occurs when a commitment to another’s welfare is perceived as an assault on their happiness (Prov 27:6; Heb 12:2).
That kind of love is rare, but it’s the only kind that is real (Prov 27:5).
Everything else is a cowardly imitation posing as compassion (Prov 27:6; 29:5; Lk 22:47-48).
What Does it Mean to Love Your Enemy? | Part IIII
This is a post that happened on quora.com. The original question was, “Why would evangelicals support a person like Trump?”
To my surprise, a former Southern Baptist preacher spoke up and regurgitated the same kind of rhetoric you would expect to hear from a Liberal, as far as voicing the perspective of an outraged victim being forced to tolerate the ignorance and cruelty of an administration that refuses to buckle beneath the weight of hypocrisy posing as compassion.
What made it even more surprising is that he refused to answer my questions and instead chose to say I wasn’t worth talking to. Hardly the response you would expect from someone who claims to have the Substance of Scripture to back up his convictions.
When you question someone’s relationship with Christ, you want to be able to point to something that represents an inconsistency with the whole of God’s Word, and not something that’s contrary to a verse that’s been taken out of context.
That’s what this Pastor does. If your starting point is a flawed premise, than it becomes easy to dismiss the truth as the result of ignorance and a lack of character.
Most of his content is based on a resolve to believe that “loving your neighbor” means to make it easier for them to break the law. He constantly refers to the biblical mandate to love the “foreigner” and the “stranger,” while simultaneously overlooking the way in which God holds foreigners and strangers accountable to the laws of the land.
This man is not unique, however. There are a lot of people in our society today who welcome the opportunity to be perceived as sophisticated and compassionate without it costing them anything. They don’t talk to the surviving family members of those who’ve been killed or raped by illegal immigrants, and they keep their doors locked while insisting that our country keeps its doors wide open. Their hypocrisy is exceeded only by their indifference.
While asking the right questions is still an effective way of separating fact from fiction, it’s also important to recognize when Scripture is either being quoted out of context, or cited at the expense of other Scriptures that speak to the same issue. You see that same dynamic when Christ was tempted in the wilderness by Satan who was prolific in citing certain verses, but only according to the bits and pieces that suited his purpose.
Here’s the dialogue in its entirety. Watch how he avoids answering certain questions and they way he refrains from applying the whole of God’s Word and instead asserts a singular verse as a bottom line and intentionally omits other verses that need to be applied in order to process all of God’s Directions correctly.
Question: Why do evangelicals support a person like Trump?
So, I read his response and my first thought is, “If you’re going to say that you’re a Pastor, why are you not citing Scripture to back up your comments?”
Right behind that would be the way that he’s trying to categorize anyone who supports Trump as being ignorant, hostile, racist, and legalistic. It sounds like a reasonable argument, maybe, until you contemplate the way a person who doesn’t have a valid point will often position themselves as victims of an ignorant and angry mob. That way they don’t have to explain why their ideas don’t work, and why don’t need to take responsibility for their actions.
In other words, he’s making his argument according to a tactic, rather than a topic.
So, here’s what I said…
So, I’m referencing Scripture, I’m providing a logical rebuttal, and explaining what I believe and why.
Here’s what he said…
So, rather than attempt to engage me according to the logic that I reinforce with Scripture, he asserts the idea that I’m just watching Fox News.
He doesn’t acknowledge the difference between a neighbor and an intruder. Jesus uses the illustration of how anyone who doesn’t enter the sheep pen using the gate, but instead enters by some other way is a thief and a robber (Jn 10:1). He’s talking about Himself as the door by which a person is able to enter into the Kingdom of God. He’s communicating a spiritual truth using a common sense reality that everyone can understand: People who want help, knock. People who want trouble, break in.
It’s the same problem that was referenced in Part II. Loving your neighbor, at the very least, means that you are working to promote their welfare. You’re not doing that by enabling them to ignore the law, or by categorizing those who disobey those in authority as mere “strangers” (Lev 24:17-32; Rom 13:3-4).
I emphasize the fact that it’s not your ethnicity, it’s your character that matters. I state my support for Trump is based on his policies which line up with biblical Absolutes and common sense perspectives, and he says I need stop leading my congregation into “further darkness and destructive anger.”
Mind you, I’m ordained, but I’m not preaching to a congregation every Sunday. My ordination happened when I was a Youth Pastor. I currently lead a Bible Study for adults, but his indictment is toxic, given the fact that he’s accusing me of being a false prophet.
He goes as far as to say that I’m a racist because I maintain that border security is important and the rule of law is both fair, healthy, and biblical (Rom 13:1-5).
So, I respond…
By using the illustration of the Good Samaritan, I’m demonstrating that you can’t rightfully categorize everyone as your “neighbor,” given the reality of sin, which often manifests itself in criminal behavior. That’s not being hateful, that’s being discerning (Jn 7:24).
I point out that by failing to make the distinction between someone who is breaking the law and someone who merely needs help is to be complicit in whatever wrongdoing is being accomplished (Lev 19:17; Rom 1:32; Jas 4:17). In other words, you’re watching someone break into your neighbor’s house, yet you insist that the thief is merely a guest.
This Pastor insists that the authority that wields the sword is the enemy, despite what it says in Romans 13:4, that you are to obey those authorities that God has instituted.
I point out that “love” is often manifested in the context of discipline and even lethal force in that, you’re not only promoting the welfare of your enemy by holding them accountable to a standard that prevents them from harming themselves and others, but also in the way you protect those you love by destroying those who constitute lethal threats (Ex 22:2; Rom 13:4; Acts 23:23-24).
And this is what he said…
Now, I’m getting frustrated…
I’m a “racist” because I agree that you shouldn’t attempt to enter this country illegally.
He refuses to make the distinction between immigrants and illegal immigrants.
He refers to ICE Agents as “untrained thugs.” I don’t even bother with that, simply because no one was complaining about a lack of training or abusive tactics when this was happening during the Obama Administration, despite the fact that Tom Holman was in charge back then as he is now. Tactics and techniques haven’t changed. What has changed is the resolve to demonize those who enforce immigration law as means to undermine the President.
And again, you’re not loving “loving your neighbor” by enabling them to break the law, or by pretending that the rule of law is nonexistent. That’s not love, that’s neglect.
So, I fire back…
Did you catch that question I asked that he didn’t answer? “Who was sinning: The person who comes here illegally, or the person enforcing border security?”
We’re building to a succinct collection of bottom lines that we’ll look at in just a minute.
Here’s his last comment…
Recap
Talking to this Pastor, and anyone who thinks like him, can be exasperating. You enumerate facts, you cite the laws that apply, you refer to specific Scriptures and, in their mind, they can dismiss every bit of it simply by saying, “…you aren’t worth talking to.”
What they really mean is that they don’t want to talk to you because of your capacity to reveal their logic as being fundamentally flawed.
Here’s a recap…
- It’s not “hate” to rightfully identify illegal / sinful behavior (Lk 17:3; Rom 13:4-5).
- You’re not being Christlike by ignoring fraud (Prov 6:12-19; 11:1).
- Foreigners and strangers are biblically commanded to obey the law (Lev 24:17-22)
- You are not “loving your neighbor” by encouraging them to ignore those laws that apply to them (Rom 13:3-4).
Conclusion: What Did Jesus Do?
While the latter part of the discussion focused primarily on illegal immigrants, this Pastor was addressing everything from Race to Capitalism to Education, insisting that every criticism coming from a Conservative mindset was uninformed, racist, and inconsistent with the Bible in general.
“What would Jesus do?” is often cited by Liberals and like minded Christians who want to insist that any kind of evaluation is rooted in prejudice and is therefore both irrelevant and immoral.
But the real question is “What did Jesus do?”
Like what was referenced in Part I, He judged, He criticized, He got angry, He called out hypocrisy and sin. That side of Jesus is largely ignored by people who want to pretend that there are no Standards, only situations, and there are no Principles, only preferences.
You love your enemy by promoting their welfare, which is ultimately manifested in the way you direct them to Christ. You don’t do that by enabling their wrongdoing or dismissing their sinful behavior. Grace means nothing without first acknowledging yourself as someone who needs to be forgiven. If there is no standard, then there is no sin. If there is no sin, there’s no need for grace.
What did Jesus do?
He made grace attractive by first making it necessary.
Your enemy is not always approachable. In war, you simply have to stop them. “Love” in that context is gauged more in the context of the life you are protecting rather than the life you are taking. A thief has to be subdued before he can be enlightened.
But an enemy that can be influenced will not see grace as attractive until he first sees it as something necessary. His perception of his iniquity is hindered when you say it doesn’t exist, just like his hope to be forgiven can be discouraged when you insist it isn’t deserved.
Loving your enemy, then, is to acknowledge the reality of his sin in a way that points them to Christ. You don’t enable their sin, you don’t ignore their crime. You address it in a way where God can reveal their sin, and then offer them the grace they now know they need.
What Does it Mean to Love Your Enemy? | Part II
Neither Biblical nor Noble
This is Part 2 of a 3 part series where we’re looking at how you are to love your enemy.
When you remain silent in the face of evil, you’re able to effectively insulate yourself from the attacks that come from those who want to silence anyone who would dare to point out their sinister actions and intent.
However sinful it may be (Gal 2:11-21; Jas 4:17), it’s an alluring way to remain on the sidelines so as to avoid the real conflict that’s happening on the field and the opposition you would otherwise have to contend with.
But when you look at Scripture as a whole, you are compelled to concede that remaining either silent or accommodating is neither biblical let alone noble.
These days, Politics and Current Events tend to be processed according to two very different worldviews.
One sees evil as something to be accommodated, the other sees it as something to be resisted.
Those who see evil as something that needs to be accommodated need to position it as something to pity. You don’t have to get someone to agree with you if you can get them to feel sorry for you.
You see that often in the Bible beginning in Genesis 3 when the serpent suggests to Eve that God is both afraid and resentful:
Now the serpent was more crafty than any of the wild animals the Lord God had made. He said to the woman, “Did God really say, ‘You must not eat from any tree in the garden’?”
2 The woman said to the serpent, “We may eat fruit from the trees in the garden, 3 but God did say, ‘You must not eat fruit from the tree that is in the middle of the garden, and you must not touch it, or you will die.’”
4 “You will not certainly die,” the serpent said to the woman. 5 “For God knows that when you eat from it your eyes will be opened, and you will be like God, knowing good and evil.” (Gen 3:1-5)
Satan begins by suggesting that God had denied Adam and Even the ability to eat from any tree, He asserts the idea that God is unnecessarily harsh, which, by default, makes Adam and Eve victims of an overbearing administration. Then in verse 5 he suggests that God is secretly intimidated at the thought of Adam and Eve becoming more than what they are right now.
What was a generous provision is now seen as an unnecessary restriction imposed by a mindset characterized by fear and hate.
Poison Disguised as a Courtesy
However obvious it may be from a distance, it can be difficult to see up close because of the way compliance with an evil premise is often justified as an act of compassion.
- Aaron’s part in building the golden calf (Ex 32:22-23)
- Israel’s demand for a king (1 Sam 8:6-9)
- Saul disobeys God by sparing King Agag and the best of the livestock (1 Sam 15:7-10)
- King Herod’s request to the Magi to tell him where Jesus was born (Matt 2:7-8, 13)
- Judas complaining about the perfume used to anoint Christ, saying that it should’ve been sold and the money given to the poor (Jn 12:1-8)
In each of the above scenarios, you have a situation where sin was concealed as a healthy and logical compromise. But what appeared to be rational and even noble, was a poison disguised as a courtesy.
The Right Questions
While discerning the difference between a legitimate request for mercy and a selfish demand for immunity is not always easy, you can gain some visibility into what’s actually the case by asking the right questions.
Accusations can be denied, and facts can be disputed. But a simple question left insufficiently answered cannot be ignored. With the right question, you’re able to proceed directly to that place where there’s either an answer or an excuse, and that’s an important dynamic to have in place in order to prevent a lie from being embraced as the truth.
Today’s political climate is frequently punctuated with soundbytes and snapshots that are presented as holistic perspectives on a particular issue. The result is a toxic environment where falsehoods are concealed behind cries for compassion and anything that has the capacity to reveal the truth is demonized as ignorant and tyrannical.
For example, the following was circulated on Social Media as an attempt to accuse anyone who supports the current administration as being less than Christlike. However compelling it may appear to be on the surface, its flaws from both a biblical and logical perspective are revealed simply by asking the right questions.
You’ll see the original post on the left with the “right questions” listed on the right.
| post | the right questions |
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Through the White House Office of Faith, the Trump administration has racked up several significant accomplishments on behalf of America’s faith based community which include: Eradicating Anti-Christian Bias – In 2023, the Biden Administration labeled people of faith as domestic terror threats for opposing abortion and transgender ideologies. Paulette Harlow, a 75 year old grandmother confined to a wheel chair was arrested for “obstructing” an Abortion Clinic and sentenced to 2 years in prison. This was typical of the Biden DOJ. The Trump Administration, through the “White House Office of Faith” pardoned Harlow as well as several others who were imprisoned for their “terrorist” activities. The Department of Veterans Affairs rescinded a Biden-era speech code that censored the sermons of military chaplains – Russell Trubey was a chaplain in a Pennsylvania VA medical center for 10 years. After delivering a sermon at the center’s chapel on Romans 1, police approached him alleging complaints were reported about the content of his message. He was removed from his duties and reassigned to stock shelves in the hospital. The Trump Administration rescinded that action and reinforced the fact that chaplains can preach in accordance with their faith without fear of persecution. Establishment of the Religious Liberty Commission – Compelling statistics reveal a disproportionate bias against Christian universities during the Biden era. Outrageous fines that were, in some instances, the largest dollar amounts in history, were levied against faith based colleges for identical infractions committed by secular institutions that were not punished to the same extent. This anomaly was seen, not just in academia, but in a number of instances pertaining to funding and tax exempt status. For a complete listing of the Trump Administration’s accomplishments in the context of faith based initiatives, click here. |
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| You can’t spend Sunday morning in church praising Jesus, talking about love, compassion, mercy, humility, honesty, and caring for the vulnerable, then spend Sunday afternoon defending an administration that does the exact opposite. | Are you being being like Christ by insisting that everyone who is breaking into your neighbor’s house is only doing so because they’re hungry? And how are you not being hypocritical if you’re telling your nethat they should leave its doors open when yours are locked and you’ve got a security system in place? |
| And before someone says, “But I’m a Republican,” let me remind you of something: God doesn’t serve political parties. Jesus didn’t die for Democrats. Jesus didn’t die for Republicans. He didn’t wear a red hat or a blue one. He didn’t tell people to pick a team and hate the other side. He called people to love their neighbor, care for the poor, welcome the stranger, seek truth, show mercy, and hold the powerful accountable. You can’t praise the Good Samaritan while cheering policies that target immigrants and asylum seekers. | Is it against the law to enter this country illegally?
How were the “foreigners” and “strangers” in Scripture treated when they broke the law? (Lev 24:17-22) Loving your enemy, at the very least, means that you are working to promote their welfare. How are you doing that by enabling their illegal behavior? |
| You can’t celebrate “love thy neighbor” while mocking the poor, cutting assistance for struggling families, and treating human suffering like a political talking point. You can’t talk about protecting children while separating families, demonizing entire communities, and creating fear as a governing strategy. | How am I “loving my neighbor” by ignoring fraud?
Why are you blaming law enforcement for separating families when it was the parents who put their families in that position to begin with? Is it not common for guilty people to be afraid of being caught (Rom 13:3-4)? |
| Jesus fed the hungry. He didn’t ask for their paperwork first. Jesus healed the sick. He didn’t check their political party. Jesus stood with the marginalized. He didn’t use them as campaign props. Jesus challenged the powerful. He didn’t worship them. This administration has normalized cruelty, retaliation, greed, vengeance, dishonesty, scapegoating, and the constant division of Americans against one another. It attacks journalists, demonizes opponents, mocks compassion as weakness, treats empathy as a flaw, and encourages people to view fellow Americans as enemies rather than neighbors. | How would you expect someone who’s guilty of fraud and deceit to react when they’re revealed for who and what they are?
What’s the purpose of division according to 1 Corinthians 11:19? Which party is it that refers to its opponents as Nazis? |
| The fruits of the Spirit are love, joy, peace, patience, kindness, goodness, faithfulness, gentleness, and self-control. Ask yourself honestly: are those the values being demonstrated? Or are we seeing anger, fear, revenge, hostility, insults, loyalty tests, culture wars, and endless outrage? You don’t have to be a Democrat to see it. You don’t have to be liberal to see it. You just have to compare what Jesus taught with what this administration celebrates. | Does love delight in evil? And is it not evil to ignore the rule of law (Rom 13:4)? |
| If your politics require you to ignore cruelty, excuse corruption, justify lies, or abandon compassion, then politics has become your religion and your politician has become your idol. God doesn’t have a political team. Jesus doesn’t wear a campaign hat. | What does the Bible say about a fool’s reaction to discipline (Prov 15:7, 10)?
If truth is whatever an individual wants to believe, then how else would they react to correction if not by labeling it as cruel, corrupt, and lacking in compassion? |
| And no politician is important enough to place above the values you claim to believe in every Sunday morning. | Why would I not support a politician who enforces the rule of law, deploys a foreign policy that’s characterized by actions and not just words, and calls out falsehoods when he sees them? |
Three Kinds of Musicians
There are three kinds of musicians:
Let me hear it – the first category is the player that doesn’t read music and will approach a song in a way that is utterly dependent on the way it was recorded. In some cases, they’re entry level players who will often reduce those things that are technically demanding to something more manageable, just so they can “sound” competent. Some of those who play by ear are excellent musicians, but nevertheless are uncomfortable when you put any kind of sheet music in front of them because of their unfamiliarity with musical notation.
Let me at it – the second category can “shred.” They’ve got all kinds of chops and are looking for any opportunity to insert their new lick, regardless of whether or not it serves the song. They are are technically proficient, and have an enthusiastic attitude, but are musically immature and will often play in a way that draws more attention to themselves rather than the substance of the song they’re playing.
Let me play it – the third category takes what’s on the page and performs it in a way that communicates in a way that goes beyond what’s heard. All of the technical expertise of the musician is used to ensure the lyric / melody is allowed to speak directly into the heart of the individual that’s listening.
All three of these “musicians” require a different approach when you’re tasked with directing their energies in a positive direction. You want to affirm their strengths and respect both their enthusiasm and their effort as you show them what you want to hear.
If you don’t make that effort to tailor your direction in a way that conforms to the category they belong to, your content gets overwhelmed by your delivery and you’re not leading people anymore, now you’re just irritating and insulting them.
Proverbs 25:11 says:
Like apples of gold in settings of silver is a word spoken at the right time. (Prov 25:11 [AMP])
It’s not just tact, it’s respect. And with that respect, comes a positive result. Otherwise, whatever results you get are going to be less than what you want.
We’re commanded in Scripture to be respectful.
As parents, we’re told not to exasperate our kids:
Fathers, do not exasperate your children; instead, bring them up in the training and instruction of the Lord. (Eph 6:4 [NIV]).
You can see the point that is being made more vividly by looking at the same Scripture in the Amplified version:
Fathers, do not provoke your children to anger [do not exasperate them to the point of resentment with demands that are trivial or unreasonable or humiliating or abusive; nor by showing favoritism or indifference to any of them], but bring them up [tenderly, with lovingkindness] in the discipline and instruction of the Lord. (Eph 6:4 [AMP])
When we’re trying to communicate the Substance of the gospel, we’re told to do it with gentleness and respect:
But in your hearts revere Christ as Lord. Always be prepared to give an answer to everyone who asks you to give the reason for the hope that you have. But do this with gentleness and respect, (1 Pet 3:15)
As leaders, you want to set the example by not using your authority to force your will, but to look out for their best interests:
2 Be shepherds of God’s flock that is under your care, watching over them—not because you must, but because you are willing, as God wants you to be; not pursuing dishonest gain, but eager to serve; 3 not lording it over those entrusted to you, but being examples to the flock. 4 And when the Chief Shepherd appears, you will receive the crown of glory that will never fade away. (1 Pet 5:2-4 [ see also Ez 34:1-4; Matt 20:25-28])
Anytime you’re tasked with leading another person or a group of individuals, you have two responsibilities. Your first responsibility is to lead them in a positive direction. Your second responsibility is to lead in a positive way. Simply telling someone that they “should” do something, isn’t the same as leading a person in a way where they “want” to do something.
That doesn’t mean you’ll never encounter difficult people who don’t want to be led, or taught (Neh 9:16). And sometimes the situation doesn’t lend itself to anything other than a need to obey immediately (Gen 19:26). But solid leadership is characterized by a servant’s heart and an approach that takes the time to consider, not just what needs to be said, but the way it needs to be said.
What Does it Mean to Love Your Enemy? | Part I
This is a three part series that responds to a couple of social media posts denigrating ICE, the deportation of illegal immigrants, and the overall tone of President Trump’s leadership.
Most of the rhetoric is based on a distorted interpretation of what the Bible means, as far as “loving your enemy.” At the very minimum…
- It’s not “hate” to rightfully identify illegal / sinful behavior (Lk 17:3; Rom 13:4-5).
- You’re not being Christlike by ignoring fraud (Prov 6:12-19; 11:1).
- Foreigners and strangers are biblically commanded to obey the law (Lev 24:17-22)
- You are not “loving your neighbor” by encouraging them to ignore those laws that apply to them (Rom 13:3-4).
You can download the Bible study that talks about how to love your enemy by clicking on the links below…
• “How To Love Your Enemy” (Leader Guide)
• “How To Love Your Enemy” (Listening Sheet)
What Does it Mean?
What does it mean to love your enemy?
There are some people who believe that Christ’s command to love one’s enemy means to encourage and applaud them, regardless of their behavior.
Consider the following:
| command | verse |
| Do not resist an evil person. Turn the other cheek, do not resist, go the extra mile | 38 “You have heard that it was said, ‘Eye for eye, and tooth for tooth.’ 39 But I tell you, do not resist an evil person. If anyone slaps you on the right cheek, turn to them the other cheek also. 40 And if anyone wants to sue you and take your shirt, hand over your coat as well. 41 If anyone forces you to go one mile, go with them two miles. 42 Give to the one who asks you, and do not turn away from the one who wants to borrow from you. (Matt 5:38-40) |
| Do not judge | Do not judge, or you too will be judged. (Matt 7:1) |
| Don’t be critical | Do not let any unwholesome talk come out of your mouths, but only what is helpful for building others up according to their needs, that it may benefit those who listen. (Eph 4:29) |
| Don’t be angry | 19 My dear brothers and sisters, take note of this: Everyone should be quick to listen, slow to speak and slow to become angry, 20 because human anger does not produce the righteousness that God desires. (Jas 1:19-20) |
| Love your enemy, pray for those who persecute you | 43 “You have heard that it was said, ‘Love your neighbor and hate your enemy.’ 44 But I tell you, love your enemies and pray for those who persecute you, 45 that you may be children of your Father in heaven. He causes his sun to rise on the evil and the good, and sends rain on the righteous and the unrighteous. 46 If you love those who love you, what reward will you get? Are not even the tax collectors doing that? 47 And if you greet only your own people, what are you doing more than others? Do not even pagans do that? 48 Be perfect, therefore, as your heavenly Father is perfect. (Matt 5:43-48) |
If we stop right here, then it’s very reasonable to believe that, when it comes to those who qualify as our “enemy,” we should never direct towards them any criticism or correction. Anything that has the potential to make them feel uncomfortable is at least cruel if not contrary to the Word of God.
And what makes it even more compelling is that when you look at the word “love,” as it’s used in Luke 10:27 where we’re told to “love the Lord your God…,” it’s the same word in the Greek:
Agape.
Agape love is described as:
…the goodwill and benevolence of God shown in self-sacrifice and an unconditional commitment to the loved one. Agape is similar to chesed in that it is steadfast, regardless of circumstances. Agape love is the kind of love we are to have for God in fulfillment of the greatest commandment (Matthew 22:37). Jesus wants to instill agape in His followers as we serve others through the power of the Holy Spirit (Matthew 22:39; John 13:34) (gotquestions.org).
So, we are to love God, each other, and our enemies with “agape” love which, incidentally, is the same word that describes the kind of love God has for us.
34 “A new command I give you: Love one another. As I have loved you, so you must love one another. 35 By this everyone will know that you are my disciples, if you love one another.” (Jn 13:34-35)
If “love” is nothing more than a perpetual affirmation of a person, then it would follow that nothing is inappropriate or deserving of condemnation. After all, we’re not supposed to judge (Matt 7:1), which further reinforces the idea that there’s no room for any kind of criticism in the heart of a true follower of Christ.
No one is immoral, there are no criminals, there are no threats, borders, or opponents. There is only love and acceptance.
Real Love in Action
But you find yourself having to reevaluate that perspective when you consider the way love is defined in 1 Corinthians 13:
4 Love is patient, love is kind. It does not envy, it does not boast, it is not proud. 5 It does not dishonor others, it is not self-seeking, it is not easily angered, it keeps no record of wrongs. 6 Love does not delight in evil but rejoices with the truth. 7 It always protects, always trusts, always hopes, always perseveres. (1 Cor 13:4-7)
Agape love doesn’t delight in evil. Matthew Henry’s Commentary elaborates on that by saying, “It is the very height of malice to take pleasure in the misery of a fellow-creature. And is not falling into sin the greatest calamity that can befal one? How inconsistent is it with Christian charity, to rejoice at such fall!”
So, it makes sense, then, that, if you love your enemy, you’re going to promote their welfare by helping them avoid the consequences of sin.
And how do you do that?
Well, how did Jesus do it?
| the actions of Christ | verse |
| He resisted evil |
13 “Woe to you, teachers of the law and Pharisees, you hypocrites! You shut the door of the kingdom of heaven in people’s faces. You yourselves do not enter, nor will you let those enter who are trying to. [14] [b]15 “Woe to you, teachers of the law and Pharisees, you hypocrites! You travel over land and sea to win a single convert, and when you have succeeded, you make them twice as much a child of hell as you are. 16 “Woe to you, blind guides! You say, ‘If anyone swears by the temple, it means nothing; but anyone who swears by the gold of the temple is bound by that oath.’ 17 You blind fools! Which is greater: the gold, or the temple that makes the gold sacred? 18 You also say, ‘If anyone swears by the altar, it means nothing; but anyone who swears by the gift on the altar is bound by that oath.’ 19 You blind men! Which is greater: the gift, or the altar that makes the gift sacred? 20 Therefore, anyone who swears by the altar swears by it and by everything on it. 21 And anyone who swears by the temple swears by it and by the one who dwells in it. 22 And anyone who swears by heaven swears by God’s throne and by the one who sits on it. 23 “Woe to you, teachers of the law and Pharisees, you hypocrites! You give a tenth of your spices—mint, dill and cumin. But you have neglected the more important matters of the law—justice, mercy and faithfulness. You should have practiced the latter, without neglecting the former. 24 You blind guides! You strain out a gnat but swallow a camel. 25 “Woe to you, teachers of the law and Pharisees, you hypocrites! You clean the outside of the cup and dish, but inside they are full of greed and self-indulgence. 26 Blind Pharisee! First clean the inside of the cup and dish, and then the outside also will be clean. 27 “Woe to you, teachers of the law and Pharisees, you hypocrites! You are like whitewashed tombs, which look beautiful on the outside but on the inside are full of the bones of the dead and everything unclean. 28 In the same way, on the outside you appear to people as righteous but on the inside you are full of hypocrisy and wickedness. 29 “Woe to you, teachers of the law and Pharisees, you hypocrites! You build tombs for the prophets and decorate the graves of the righteous. 30 And you say, ‘If we had lived in the days of our ancestors, we would not have taken part with them in shedding the blood of the prophets.’ 31 So you testify against yourselves that you are the descendants of those who murdered the prophets. 32 Go ahead, then, and complete what your ancestors started! 33 “You snakes! You brood of vipers! How will you escape being condemned to hell? 34 Therefore I am sending you prophets and sages and teachers. Some of them you will kill and crucify; others you will flog in your synagogues and pursue from town to town. 35 And so upon you will come all the righteous blood that has been shed on earth, from the blood of righteous Abel to the blood of Zechariah son of Berekiah, whom you murdered between the temple and the altar. 36 Truly I tell you, all this will come on this generation. (Matt 23:13-36 [see also Matt 3:7; 12:34) |
| He judged | 20 Then Jesus began to denounce the towns in which most of his miracles had been performed, because they did not repent. 21 “Woe to you, Chorazin! Woe to you, Bethsaida! For if the miracles that were performed in you had been performed in Tyre and Sidon, they would have repented long ago in sackcloth and ashes. 22 But I tell you, it will be more bearable for Tyre and Sidon on the day of judgment than for you. 23 And you, Capernaum, will you be lifted to the heavens? No, you will go down to Hades.[e] For if the miracles that were performed in you had been performed in Sodom, it would have remained to this day. 24 But I tell you that it will be more bearable for Sodom on the day of judgment than for you.” (Matt 11:20-24) |
| He was critical |
Peter: 23 Jesus turned and said to Peter, “Get behind me, Satan! You are a stumbling block to me; you do not have in mind the concerns of God, but merely human concerns.” (Matt 16:23) Pharisees: Then some Pharisees and teachers of the law came to Jesus from Jerusalem and asked, 2 “Why do your disciples break the tradition of the elders? They don’t wash their hands before they eat!” 3 Jesus replied, “And why do you break the command of God for the sake of your tradition? 4 For God said, ‘Honor your father and mother’[a] and ‘Anyone who curses their father or mother is to be put to death.’[b] 5 But you say that if anyone declares that what might have been used to help their father or mother is ‘devoted to God,’ 6 they are not to ‘honor their father or mother’ with it. Thus you nullify the word of God for the sake of your tradition. 7 You hypocrites! Isaiah was right when he prophesied about you: 8 “‘These people honor me with their lips, but their hearts are far from me. 9 They worship me in vain; their teachings are merely human rules.’[c]” (Matt 15:1-9) Herod: 31 At that very hour some Pharisees came up and said to Him, “Leave and go away from here, because Herod [Antipas] wants to kill You.” 32 And He said to them, “Go and tell that fox [that sly, cowardly man], ‘Listen carefully: I cast out demons and perform healings today and tomorrow, and on the third day I reach My goal.’ (Lk 13:31-32 [AMP]) |
| He got angry | 12 Jesus entered the temple courts and drove out all who were buying and selling there. He overturned the tables of the money changers and the benches of those selling doves. 13 “It is written,” he said to them, “‘My house will be called a house of prayer,’[e] but you are making it ‘a den of robbers.’[f]” (Matt 21:12-13) |
| He will punish His enemies and banish those who persecuted Him. |
31 “When the Son of Man comes in his glory, and all the angels with him, he will sit on his glorious throne. 32 All the nations will be gathered before him, and he will separate the people one from another as a shepherd separates the sheep from the goats. 33 He will put the sheep on his right and the goats on his left. 34 “Then the King will say to those on his right, ‘Come, you who are blessed by my Father; take your inheritance, the kingdom prepared for you since the creation of the world. 35 For I was hungry and you gave me something to eat, I was thirsty and you gave me something to drink, I was a stranger and you invited me in, 36 I needed clothes and you clothed me, I was sick and you looked after me, I was in prison and you came to visit me.’ 37 “Then the righteous will answer him, ‘Lord, when did we see you hungry and feed you, or thirsty and give you something to drink? 38 When did we see you a stranger and invite you in, or needing clothes and clothe you? 39 When did we see you sick or in prison and go to visit you?’ 40 “The King will reply, ‘Truly I tell you, whatever you did for one of the least of these brothers and sisters of mine, you did for me.’ 41 “Then he will say to those on his left, ‘Depart from me, you who are cursed, into the eternal fire prepared for the devil and his angels. 42 For I was hungry and you gave me nothing to eat, I was thirsty and you gave me nothing to drink, 43 I was a stranger and you did not invite me in, I needed clothes and you did not clothe me, I was sick and in prison and you did not look after me.’ 44 “They also will answer, ‘Lord, when did we see you hungry or thirsty or a stranger or needing clothes or sick or in prison, and did not help you?’ 45 “He will reply, ‘Truly I tell you, whatever you did not do for one of the least of these, you did not do for me.’ 46 “Then they will go away to eternal punishment, but the righteous to eternal life.” (Matt 25:31-46) |
In addition to the fact that Jesus did criticize, judge, and resist evil, when you consider the way in which God empowered the Israelites in the context of their military endeavors, it’s obvious that “loving your enemy” means something more than just being accommodating (Ps 44:3).
You’re Not Being Kind If…
You’re not being kind if you’re making it easier for someone to sin. Nor are you loving your enemy, let alone your neighbor or family member, by enabling their disobedience. That would be like offering a glass of water to Adam and Eve so they can better digest the fruit they’re eating (Gen 3:6).
Fact is, you are being disobedient by not calling out bad behavior, given what it says in Ephesians 5:11:
Have nothing to do with the fruitless deeds of darkness, but rather expose them. (Eph 5:11 [see also Jas 4:17])
When you consider the whole of God’s Word, and not just random verses taken out of context, a believer’s response to evil looks much different than the accommodating applause that is often promoted by our society today.
That’s not a direct quote from the Sermon on the Mount. Jesus never said not to judge. The verse in its entirety is, “Do not judge, or you too will be judged.” (Matt 7:1) What Jesus was saying here is to not be hypocritical by criticizing something in a person’s behavior when you’re doing the same thing. Bear in mind that in John 7:24, Jesus says to stop judging by mere appearances, but instead judge correctly. You can’t expose the fruitless works of darkness without “judging” whether or not what you’re seeing is, in fact, sinful. Galatians 6:1 instructs those who are spiritually capable to help restore someone who’s been caught doing something wrong. Again, you can’t correctly identify wrongful behavior unless you’re judging.
gotquestions.org sums it up very well…
The Bible’s command that we not judge others does not mean we cannot show discernment. Immediately after Jesus says, “Do not judge,” He says, “Do not give dogs what is sacred; do not throw your pearls to pigs” (Matthew 7:6). A little later in the same sermon, He says, “Watch out for false prophets. . . . By their fruit you will recognize them” (verses 15–16). How are we to discern who are the “dogs” and “pigs” and “false prophets” unless we have the ability to make a judgment call on doctrines and deeds? Jesus is giving us permission to tell right from wrong.
Jesus told His disciples to get a sword, and if they didn’t have one, to sell their coat and go buy one…
The NIV Text Note reads:
The Bible is rife with military action, armed escorts, and multiple examples of “sanctified violence” which make it abundantly clear that there are times when the use of force is both encouraged and, in many instances, empowered by God Himself. (see also Conquest of the Promised Land [Josh 6:20-21; Josh 11:20], Gideon [Jud 7], David defending Israel by attacking the Philistines [1 Sam 23:1-2], Building the Wall [Neh 4:13])
Agape love in practice is to be constantly encouraging the object of your love in a positive direction. You are not “loving your enemy” by subsidizing their bad behavior or ignoring the Standard that defines it. You do that by alerting them to the pain and the problems that lie just beyond the sin that they’re getting ready to commit. Confrontation and criticism are both represented in the example of Christ and we are commanded to be Christlike, not only by calling out bad behavior, but also in way we do it (Ps 141:5; Prov 12:18; 25:11; 27:5-6; Matt 18:15-17; Gal 6:1).
Scripture as a Whole
When you remain silent in the face of evil, not only do you bring judgment upon yourself (Jas 4:17), you effectively insulate yourself from the attacks that come from those who want to silence anyone who would dare to point out their sinister actions and intent, which is frowned upon as well (Gal 2:11-21).
However sinful it may be, it’s an alluring way to remain on the sidelines so as to avoid the real conflict that’s happening on the field and the opposition you would have to contend with.
But when you look at Scripture as a whole, you are compelled to concede that remaining either silent or accommodating is neither biblical let alone noble.
What does it mean to love your enemy? At the very least, it means that you commit yourself to their welfare by helping them to avoid the consequences of bad decisions. You don’t do that by making it easier for them to fail or enabling the harm they would do to themselves and others.



